With fifty per cent regret, fifty per cent relief, we hang up the oars

Our last boat guests ever (our daughter Hannah and her husband Pieter) had left but it wasn’t a sad goodbye as we were going to see them very soon in The Netherlands!

Early in the morning, the day after they left,  we hauled anchor for the very last time and motored just across the water from our anchorage in Preveza in northwestern Greece to Aktio Marina where Sunday was going to be pulled out of the water.

Sunday being pulled out of the water – hopefully for the last time under our watch

It felt very strange that after so many years of living most of the time aboard either on  Bali Hai or Sunday, we were doing everything for the last time. 

It was a strange feeling  – fifty per cent sadness and regret and fifty per cent relief. Or maybe that was just me –  I think Jonathan was really much more ready to “hang up the oars” as the responsibility for being the captain and all that entails was beginning to weigh heavily on him. 

Waiting for Sunday to be power washed before transferring her onto a low loader

After a short time of hanging around outside the marina while another boat was lifted it was our turn. Jonathan steered her in perfectly and the whole thing went like clockwork. 

Once out, Sunday was given a power wash and then transferred on to a remote controlled low loader. It looked rather dodgy (lots of blocks of wood involved) but she was soon transported to her resting place without mishap. It was intriguing to watch the guy deftly employ the remote control to steer her through the boat yard – just like one of those tiny remote control vehicles that kids adore but many hundreds of times larger!

On the low loader and ready to go

We were given a good position – right next to the toilet/shower block and importantly with plenty of space for a crane to sit alongside when the time comes for Sunday’s mast to be lifted so her rigging can be renewed. 

The marina workers make sure Sunday is secure
The low loader departing – the guy in the foreground
was steering!

Once we were settled we had time to explore a little – Aktio Marina has a large but utilitarian common room with a big book swap/library and a decent laundry room nearby with  plenty of washing lines outside. 

The common room at
Aktio Marina
There is a well stocked book swap/library

The office staff couldn’t be more helpful and obliging and the chandlery behind the office is well stocked and also has pleasant staff. 

Over the next few days we finished packing all our personal effects and having another big chuck out. Then more boat cleaning inside and out and preparing to leave her (draining and cleaning the toilets and disconnecting them, taking the dinghy off and storing it under the boat, putting the Code Zero sail away, giving the decks a good scrub etc).

We stored to dinghy underneath Sunday

One evening we walked to the local taverna and had an excellent meal while watching the sun go down. 

A sunset meal at the local taverna
As always, a Greek salad
to share
Lovely view of the setting sun
We met this fellow on our way back from the taverna

Very early in the  morning, just a few days after we had arrived, we left by taxi to go to the airport which is literally three kilometres down the road from the marina. 

Up at the crack of dawn
An early start – we had a plane to catch!
The marina (blue dot) is so close to the airport (red marker)

The early start meant that we arrived in The Netherlands mid morning so we had the rest of the day ahead of us to enjoy with  Hannah and Pieter. 

We had the rest of the day to spend with Hannah and Pieter

After being picked up at the airport we drove straight to their house for a wonderful four days of total rest and relaxation. 

We were really spoilt!  Hannah and Pieter wouldn’t let us lift a finger and it felt wonderful to be able to relax so completely after a busy and sometimes stressful couple of months. 

It was also so marvellous to have a few days surrounded by abundance and greenery after spending the last couple of months in cripplingly hot, dry and dusty Greece!

Jonathan and Pieter enjoying the view from a bridge
While Hannah goes to say hello to a horse and her foal

It was so beautiful to be able to walk in lush wetlands and enjoy cooler temperatures. 

Later on we met these cute miniature horses
What a cutie
It was beautiful to be surrounded by abundance and greenery
A gorgeous walk – especially after being in dry and
dusty Greece
Wonderful to walk in lush wetlands and enjoy cooler temperatures
Hannah and Pieter’s garden was full of colour
Pretty fuchsia in the backyard

We were also very happy to visit historic Delft again and sit in the beautiful main square – drinking beer and people watching. 

We were happy to visit historic Delft again
Delft town hall where Hannah and Pieter were married during Covid
A salsa hobby group performing in the main square
There’s always lots going on in Delft during the
summer months
This coach and horses is a favourite with the tourists
Another delightful mode of transport for tourists
We met the coach
and horses again
I love discovering parts of a city that I haven’t come
across before
Another new view of Delft

It was a wonderful summer’s evening the day before we left and we had a lovely meal outside with home grown melon (from Pieter’s parent’s garden) for dessert. Even Cato our grandcat – who normally won’t set a foot outside the house – came to join us.

It was warm enough to have dinner outside
Loving that home grown melon!
Even Cato our grandcat came out to join us
She was only a little bit scared

All too soon it was time to leave to drive back to Greece in our camper van   where we would load up all our remaining possessions from the boat and hopefully complete the sale of Sunday. 

Our first stop was Osnabrück in northwest Germany, a pleasant town with a 17th century Baroque castle that is now the main building of the town’s university. 

To our eyes the castle looked more like a palace so we weren’t surprised to find out that it had in fact been the residence of the evangelical prince-bishops of Osnabrück from 1673 onwards. The palace is now the headquarters for the local university.

The “castle” looked more
like a palace
It had been the residence of the evangelical prince-bishops of Osnabrück from 1673 onwards
It is now the headquarters for the local university

We stayed the night in a quiet car park very close to the landmark church of  St Catherine’s which was completed around 1500 and whose 103 metres (338 ft) high tower has has been an important feature of the city for many centuries. 

St Catherine’s Church tower has been an important landmark since around 1500
The tower is 103 metres (338 ft) high
Some life like statues in the shadow of St Catherine’s Church
Bunting and greenery to celebrate the “topping off ceremony” when the roof of this house was completed

One of the highlights of this city was that I saw a red squirrel for the first time in my life – something that I’ve wanted to do since I was a child!  It was very shy but a real beauty!

A red squirrel – the first I’ve ever seen!
What a gorgeous fluffy tail!

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10 responses to “With fifty per cent regret, fifty per cent relief, we hang up the oars”

  1. Chris Hedge Avatar
    Chris Hedge

    Hi Dot

    I have only known you for a short while (April 2023 to be precise) but have loved reading your blogs and find myself absolutely feeling your emotions right now.

    life’s a journey and you & Jon are just moving on to the next passage.

    enjoy the journey guys and I hope we bump into each other again soon

    Chris Hedge ( & Julie)

    xx

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    1. Thanks Chris, we really appreciate your empathetic message! Yes it’s all very strange but we are feeling sure that we are doing the right thing. I hope you and Julie are still having a wonderful time on your sailing adventures. And yes, you never know where and when we will meet again but hope it’s sooner rather than later xx

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  2. catherinehammond1 Avatar
    catherinehammond1

    We also have sailed our own boat for the last time, after my husband has owned, lived and cruised on them for various periods over the last 50 years. He liked to do all the maintenance himself, and this became too much. But on to new, different things in life, and travelling by different methods like you.

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    1. Oh wow Catherine such big changes for you too. I hope that all goes well for you both and you enjoy all those new modes of transport! Good luck!

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  3. Julia Challender Avatar
    Julia Challender

    So many beautiful photos of both Greece and the Netherlands! It certainly is the end of one era and a time of both regret and relief – but the start of another one, full of exciting new adventures!

    Your blog has been an amazing record of your travels which so many of us have enjoyed – full of wonderful photos and descriptions that have captured your experiences so vividly. Thank you – keep on writing it, won’t you!

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    1. Thank you so much Julia for continuing to read the blog (and featuring in it too!) It’s been a long journey and it’s not over yet! While we keep travelling I will definitely keep writing my blog – it’s a habit now!

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  4. Thanks again for another very interesting read, along with photos and commentary. All the best for the your future adventures wherever it might be.

    cheers,

    Di & John

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    1. Hi Di and John, apologies for the late reply! Thanks so much for your good wishes! I hope you’re both keeping well and enjoying life xx

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  5. Jackie Leitch Avatar
    Jackie Leitch

    Dear Dottie

    I wanted to write and say what an amazing decision you made all those years ago to embrace sailing! I can’t imagine how many beautiful places on the planet you have seen. Well done you both.

    And now you have the next episode in your lives to look forward to.

    I know you will also enjoy that very much too.

    Your updates have become a part of my life and I look forward to continue receiving them – are you thinking of changing the title?

    Much love

    Jackie xxxx

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    1. Thank you for your lovely words Jackie! It’s all very strange leaving Sunday behind but we have so many amazing memories! We are very much looking forward to all the new adventures ahead! Yes been thinking about changing the website name – might tweak it – I’ll think about it for a while! Lots of love xxxx

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